| I am sure that I am not alone in the fact
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| | fluently at interviews, due to the
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| that I have a large army of demons in my
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| | pressure factor.
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| head. These demons are always talking to
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| | I would be able to speak quite well when
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| me and trying to advise me about how to
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| | I was drunk and this is when I would have
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| react to different situations. For many
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| | the confidence to talk to the ladies. On
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| years I listened and took their advice,
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| | several occasions a woman has given me
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| these years were not exactly happy ones
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| | their phone number and I would tell them
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| and I have now come to realise that these
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| | that I would call them to arrange a night
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| demons are not my friends but are
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| | out. The next day though, when sober, the
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| actually my enemy.
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| | demons would remind me that making a
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| I had many issues in my life that had a
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| | phone call is what I find the hardest
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| negative affect on my levels of
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| | form of speech task and to simply not
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| self-esteem. The demons used these issues
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| | bother.
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| to get to me and to play their mind
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| | As previously stated, I used to listen to
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| games. For this article, I am going to
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| | these demons and suffice it to say I did
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| describe my stuttering demons and how I
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| | not go on my first date until I was
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| eventually destroyed them. The advice can
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| | eighteen years of age.
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| be used for whatever type of demon you
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| | Things had to and were about to change.
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| may have.
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| | After reading many self-help books, I
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| At the age of four, I developed a stutter
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| | realised what I had been doing wrong. I
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| which would continue to affect my speech
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| | should not be listening to these demons,
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| for the next eighteen years of my life. I
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| | in fact what I need to do is the opposite
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| was aware of what I could and could not
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| | of what they tell me. Steve don't go to
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| say and was also aware of the social
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| | that party, OK then I will. Steve don't
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| situations in which I was more likely to
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| | phone that lady up, OK I will, etc.
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| stutter.
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| | I am not trying to say that this is easy
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| If I was asked a question by for example
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| | to do. I am happy to say that I have
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| a friend, I would think of the answer but
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| | eradicated my speech demons and am now
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| before I would have a chance to say it, a
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| | fluent, however I do still have demons in
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| voice would appear. This voice or what I
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| | other areas of my life. There are not
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| call my demons would advise me not to say
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| | nearly as many as there have been in the
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| that word and to substitute it for a
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| | past and I am slowly hopefully killing
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| different word.
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| | them all.
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| If I was invited out to say a party, my
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| | I treat it like a war. There are many
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| demons would advise me not to go, as
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| | battles and I have to say that I do not
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| there would be a lot of people there that
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| | win them all. I talk to my demons all the
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| I did not know. They would remind me that
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| | time and especially when they win one of
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| I found it difficult talking to people
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| | these type battles. I tell them that they
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| which I did not know.
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| | may have won this particular battle but
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| At one stage in my life, I decided that I
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| | that I will win the overall war.
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| wanted a career change as I was not happy
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| | You may possibly think that I am a bit of
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| in the role that I was in. My demons
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| | a freak after reading this article. I
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| reminded me, that to find alternative
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| | frankly do not care, I am happier now
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| employment meant going through the whole
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| | than I have ever been.
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| interview process again. They continued
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| | Good luck in your quest to improve your
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| that I had always struggled to talk
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| | own life.
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