| Flirting with men is so fun and so
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| | easily. You become the life of the party.
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| simple. So why don't we do it?
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| | You find it easier to strike up a
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| One man recently wrote me that it was
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| | conversation with strangers.
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| true that flirting was a great way for
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| | Best of all, when flirting feels natural
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| women to attract men, but he was "yet to
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| | to you, you no longer will feel awkward
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| experience this from a woman, must be
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| | when faced with a handsome man that you'd
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| fun."
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| | like to know better. You'll feel
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| Men LOVE it when women flirt with them!
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| | confident, because you know that other
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| They love the fun aspect of it: the
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| | people have enjoyed your flirting. You
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| playful banter, the dance of eye contact,
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| | won't even have time to get nervous,
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| and the sheer joy of being surprised by
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| | because your flirting skills will kick in
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| the unexpected.
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| | and start the conversation for you.
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| Best of all, flirting is immensely
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| | But being the best flirt in the world
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| flattering. It's an indication of
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| | won't protect you from the one thing that
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| interest in another person, even if that
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| | every flirt must face: rejection.
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| interest is not romantic in nature. The
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| | 3. Don't take rejection personally.
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| best flirts know how to make the other
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| | The one sure way to kill the spirit of
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| person feel special without expecting
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| | flirtation is to see it as in terms of
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| anything in return.
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| | success and failure. As I said earlier,
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| If you are going to improve your flirting
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| | your goal is simply to make the other
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| skills with men, here are three tips that
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| | person feel special without expecting
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| will give you a SUPER flirting mindset.
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| | anything in return. If the other person
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| 1. Flirting is playful, not serious.
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| | doesn't want to return your comment, or
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| If you give a man a compliment, are you
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| | wink back, it's no more devastating than
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| flirting? If you make eye contact, does
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| | a playmate saying that they don't want to
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| it count as a flirtation? If a stranger
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| | play right now.
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| teased you when you were walking up to
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| | Luckily, your chances of rejection are
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| the bar, was he flirting? What exactly IS
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| | lower than you think. Most people go
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| flirting, anyway?
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| | through life wishing for greater
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| Flirting is distinguished by its playful
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| | connection with others. When we're
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| nature. You cannot be a serious flirt.
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| | standing in a crowded elevator or waiting
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| Remember how boys used to tease you in
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| | in line at a busy shop, most of us would
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| grade school, and you used to tease them
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| | love someone to start a conversation with
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| back? That's the kind of playful spirit
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| | us. It can be such a delight to meet
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| you want to invoke while flirting
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| | someone new, even if our conversation
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| (although I don't recommend pulling
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| | only lasts for a few minutes.
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| anyone's pigtails!).
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| | Think of your flirtation as an offering:
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| A flirtatious encounter will usually
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| | you're offering someone the possibility
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| involve three elements:
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| | of connection, and if they don't want to
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| * Humor (or wit),
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| | take it, you simply offer it to the next
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| * Risk, and
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| | person.
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| * A display of interest.
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| | Sadly, the art of flirting has declined
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| For example, a witty comment is one
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| | so greatly that many people don't know
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| common way to start flirting with
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| | what to do when someone flirts with them.
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| someone, but by being the first to make a
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| | They may feel uncomfortable and turn away
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| move, you're putting yourself at risk of
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| | or ignore the flirtatious glance or
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| rejection. If your flirtatious comment
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| | comment, because they have no clue what
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| pushes boundaries, you're also taking the
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| | they should do.
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| risk that the other person may not find
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| | If you keep a playful mindset while
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| your sense of humor amusing.
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| | flirting, and practice it whenever and
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| Beginning flirts may find it
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| | wherever you can, you'll find that your
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| uncomfortable to put themselves in the
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| | fears of rejection dissipate until you
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| vulnerable position of displaying their
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| | can no longer remember why you let them
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| interest in another person without
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| | keep you from making the first move.
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| knowing whether that person will even
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| | For a further discussion of flirting
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| respond. That's why the next point is so
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| | tactics, look no further than "How to Be
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| important.
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| | Irresistible to Men." Sarah Paul's
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| 2. The best flirts practice on everyone.
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| | original e-book will teach you how to use
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| You'll never become a great flirt if you
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| | flirting to take your interactions with a
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| only flirt with men you like. Flirting is
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| | man to that next level. You'll also learn
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| one of life's greatest joys, and it
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| | how to be funny, how to master the art of
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| should be practiced whenever and wherever
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| | conversation, and how to give compliments
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| possible. Flirt with the waiter at the
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| | to a man. It's everything YOU need to
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| coffee shop. Flirt with the bus driver.
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| | know about flirting, in an easy
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| Flirt with the old man standing behind
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| | step-by-step format. And it's all part of
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| you in line.
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| | the complete "How to Be Irresistible to
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| When flirting becomes part of your daily
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| | Men" course, which includes advice on how
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| life rather than a specialized skill that
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| | to kiss and how to overcome any shyness
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| you apply only when you meet a potential
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| | that may be preventing you from flirting
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| Mr. Perfect, you'll find that magic
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| | with men.
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| starts to happen. You make friends more
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