| #1 Don't Believe Their Hype Just because you see an | | | | the way. They will give incorrect or hurtful information |
| advert in a magazine or online that says someone has | | | | to get what they want. Most of the time their actions |
| been a successful psychic for twenty years and they | | | | come from their unconscious mind. They are not |
| can help you, this does not necessarily mean they are | | | | aware that their ego is giving misleading guidance. If |
| the real deal. I've seen ads where psychics say | | | | what you are being told feels hurtful towards you |
| they've read for Presidents and charge $300 for 20 | | | | rather than showing the truth of a situation, the reading |
| minutes and yet their ability does not reflect their | | | | is not serving the purpose of helping you. Do not be |
| financial rate. The most expensive psychics are not | | | | frightened to explain that the information is not true for |
| always the best. | | | | you. Ultimately the most important person to trust is |
| #2 Preying on Vulnerable People Having done over | | | | you. |
| 1,000 psychic readings, Approximately 80% of my | | | | #5 Why is the Psychic Behaving Like The Spanish |
| clients are going through some type of challenge. The | | | | Inquisition? It's a bad sign when you go for a reading |
| other 20% are looking to deepen their relationships, | | | | and the psychic starts asking you lots of questions to |
| create more success and deepen spiritual awareness. | | | | extract information from you. For example "Are you |
| When people are vulnerable, they can be desperate | | | | married? Do you have children? Are you going through |
| for answers and will go to any psychic to alleviate their | | | | a divorce? I've got a dead relative coming through for |
| pain. I have heard of situations where the person has | | | | you. Is it your Dad, brother, ex-boyfriend?" I find the |
| left the reading more distraught than when they | | | | best readings are when I don't know the client |
| arrived for their session. If you are in an emotional | | | | because it gives them confirmation about the guidance |
| state and have any doubt about the psychic, do not | | | | they are receiving. A good psychic will be able to tune |
| commit to a session with them. | | | | straight in. |
| #3 A Psychic is not God A psychic reads your energy | | | | 5 Tips to Help You Pick The Best Psychic For You |
| field and accesses information from your past, present | | | | |
| or future. Do not let any psychic have power over | | | | 1. Get a referral from a friend or reputable |
| your decision making process. A psychic's role is to | | | | metaphysical bookstore. |
| support you as a guide and a counselor so you can | | | | 2. Trust your gut. Just because someone said they |
| make the best choice. A psychic reading is meant to | | | | had an amazing reading with a psychic, doesn't mean |
| be preventative medicine. It is poor conduct and | | | | they are the right psychic for you. It depends on their |
| irresponsible when a psychic says something like "You | | | | vibration being a match with yours. |
| are going to die in the next two years." "You're | | | | 3. Be open when going for a reading. If you put up a |
| husband will have an affair." "You're going to loose | | | | wall and try to test the psychic, you'll be wasting your |
| money." I remember being at a New Age event and | | | | time and money. |
| this guy comes up to me. He tells me he's a | | | | 4. Are they friendly? Professional? Supportive? |
| professional palm reader, before I could respond, he'd | | | | 5. Psychic Checklist: Questions to Ask |
| grabbed my hand, turned it over and said "Oh, you're | | | | - How long have you been psychic reading? |
| going to die in a year and there's nothing you can do | | | | - How will you tune in to get the information I need? |
| about it." I was horrified. I knew his energy was off and | | | | - How many readings have you done? |
| I dismissed him however for someone susceptible to | | | | - What percentage of your clients return? If yes, how |
| this information, it would have been quite traumatic. | | | | often? |
| Listen to information however come to your own | | | | - Do you honor client confidentiality? |
| conclusions. If you are uncomfortable in a reading and | | | | - Do you teach workshops? I strongly recommend |
| the psychic is abusing your boundaries, leave. | | | | carrying out a little research before committing to the |
| #4 Manipulation and Power-play Watch out for | | | | reading. This will maximize your connection with the |
| psychics and healers that claim to be channeling | | | | psychic, confirm that the psychic is authentic and set |
| extra-terrestrial beings. I have seen their egos get in | | | | you up for a positive experience. |