Heal Love Relationships

We have such wonderful potential in our loveobviously can't use any kind of force to get anything
relationships. All we need is understanding and aaccomplished with their siblings. I think this is one reason
willingness to be one who loves and is loved.they learn to be persuasive rather than forceful. They
Often we see people who try to do something meantend to analyze everything. Maybe this is why I ended
to someone else. Why is this? Is it because they don'tup being a computer systems analyst.
like themselves and therefore want to pass the painI understand from a wonderful birthorder counselor
of that personal rejection on to someone else?that fourth borns tend to be mystical spiritual. This
Our birth order in our family structure creates in ourcertainly fits with my character. I tend to analyze
personal worlds significant things we are conditioned toeverything, and I mostly enjoy being in communication
deal with. For instance, as a fourth born, I find that I trywith angels and good spirits including Yashua and my
to say things very quickly because otherwise I will beheavenly Father, and I am content in the spiritual world.
interrupted. And that stands to reason. As a fourthWhen I was little, I would go out in the woods, build a
born, I had three older siblings and two parents, andlittle bed out of bent over bushes, and look into the
who would listen to the youngest member of theheavens and contemplate God. What a wonderful
family anyway? They are conditioned that they arechildhood!
always too young to participate in games the olderWe can each find out what moves us into action
siblings may be playing, and they are almost alwaysbased on our birthorder. It helps us to understand why
taught that they don't know very much.we may be our own worst enemies when it comes to
Fourth borns have very little authority in anything. Theybuilding and maintaining our love relationships.