| I'd like to share how unconditional love has come into | | | | definitely an understatement. I have found that the man |
| my reality. I was married for almost 20 years and now | | | | I am most attracted to has been an incredible healing |
| I am single. I was going along living my life, no major | | | | exercise for ME. (And I thought my life was just fine!) |
| problems when my guidance told me to join these | | | | His age reminded me of issues I needed to heal, his |
| social groups for the purpose of meeting men. I had no | | | | location was another reminder, his attraction to me |
| interest in meeting a man. I'd just come to grips with | | | | was another reminder and there were lots more |
| being single and the thought of dating was not | | | | reminders. I'm a life coach and healer, I thought that I |
| something I was looking forward to. My guidance told | | | | had unconditional love for myself and for everyone |
| me I would be doing it just for fun, nothing serious. So I | | | | else. Boy was I wrong!! It is truly amazing how much |
| joined two social groups and I met lots of men (over | | | | programming and conditioning we have to not love |
| 50) in less then 4 weeks! | | | | unconditionally. Every time I thought that I had it down |
| I was amazed. I asked my single friends if they were | | | | pat, something would happen to remind me of how |
| getting this kind of response. Their answers were all, | | | | much programming I still have. We are so programmed |
| "No, I've never gotten that much interest!" I couldn't | | | | that even the people that I know love me tell me I'm |
| figure out what I was doing to attract that many men! | | | | crazy because I am working on loving him and myself |
| I'm a 50-year-old black woman for heavens sake! So I | | | | unconditionally. Why invest so much time healing issues |
| asked my guidance. They told me that this was all just | | | | over a man I have never actually seen? I do it |
| for fun and I should just see what the men had to | | | | because I had no idea how I let expectations and old |
| offer. Okay, so I started to look at what I was | | | | beliefs rule my life. I'm still learning to let go and live in |
| attracting. It was amazing! Men from all different | | | | the moment, even though I've been doing this for over |
| countries, all different races, a wide variety of ages! | | | | 5 months! I can see some improvement but when I |
| Then I began to notice something about most of these | | | | least expect it an old belief will rear it's ugly head and I |
| men, they had an energy of desperation. I would | | | | have to do more healing work on myself and on him. |
| respond to their email and in their next email to me | | | | So my advice to others is to take a good look at your |
| they would be calling me darling or sweetheart and | | | | lives and your relationships. You are a lot deeper then |
| telling me how I was the one they had been looking | | | | you realize and some of these beliefs go back many |
| for! Okay, something is wrong here. These men didn't | | | | lifetimes. I will say that clearing out the old and coming |
| know me at all so how could I be their perfect match? | | | | from unconditional love is very freeing. I see my life |
| I found myself judging these men and avoiding their | | | | and my relationships in a whole new way. I have taken |
| messages. I was not having fun! And my guidance | | | | back my power and know that my happiness is my |
| was showing me how I was not coming from | | | | choice, not based on circumstances. I have a higher |
| unconditional love. When I started responding in the | | | | appreciation for myself and for life. I also trust my |
| ways I was guided, I started to help some of these | | | | guidance more, they obviously see more than I can. |
| men to heal. As they healed they moved on to other | | | | Getting out of the rut of your old thoughts and beliefs |
| women. Soon I was down to about 3 men. | | | | is so very worth it! I'm even having fun! |
| To say that nothing has turned out like I expected is | | | | |